"I don't care if it's a boy or a girl, as long as it's healthy." Have you heard people say that? Does it drive you as crazy as it does me?
Of COURSE I want a healthy baby, but I don't see why I can't also have a preference for gender.
A Punch In The Gut", which explores this very topic. And check out some of the other great articles on their November theme, "Men," while you're there!